If you have a senior on your gift list this holiday season, you know it can sometimes be a challenging assignment.
Seniors with means generally buy what they need and want for themselves. Others do without and wouldn’t think of speaking up. Either way, family members and friends struggle with the dilemma of what to give their loved one to delight them.
In a survey conducted by a Salem, Oregon senior center, the leading preference was gift certificates for favorite restaurants. Other types of gift certificates were also popular, such as for events and travel like airline vouchers allowing a visit with family. Third in line: cash. Food gifts were welcome as long as the giver takes into account the recipient’s preferences and dietary needs.
But by a huge margin, seniors wished for time with children and grandchildren. Family photos were mentioned by nearly every person responding. Some also suggested certificates for the kind of “work projects” they found difficult from children and grandchildren.
What kind of gifts do seniors dread? Clothing, or health and beauty products. Everyone who’s ever been guilty of giving a robe and slippers or a bottle of perfume, you know who you are.
The results are clear. Seniors don’t really want your presents. They want your presence. They want company, conversation, and to feel a part of the extended family. They want to know their grandchildren better. There is truly nothing more precious and valuable than someone’s time.
So give up on the mall. Make a visit part of your holiday giving. Or send that ticket to your senior relatives and treat them to a trip to your home for the holidays. Create special memories and don’t forget to take plenty of photos that can go home with your family members.
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