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Health & Fitness

Be a Light

Looks are not all that important. What?!? Yeah, stick with me here.

Of course, it’s initially a consideration, but did you ever notice that the more you like someone, the better looking they get? And vice versa. Someone could be physically hot, but gets uglier and uglier the more you get to know them.

What attracts us is the attitude and energy coming from someone who feels genuinely good about themselves.

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Eating healthy and physical activity are the cornerstones to being well and feeling amazing. But eating and exercise are just a start.  To be one of those people that radiates, go deeper into making other aspects of your life healthy.

Instead of obsessing on how your butt looks in those jeans, perhaps take a closer look at how you show up in the world.  Are you a positive person?  Do you have a good character?  Do you take good care of yourself?  Are you responsible and supportive?  Are you kind and loving?  Are you a good friend?  Do you like your work?

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If you are healthy and balanced, you’ll have the umph to show up in you life in a positive and energetic way.

Looking good on the outside isn’t very meaningful if the person on the inside is a hot mess.  When you are healthy and balanced from the inside out, you become a light and people are attracted to you.


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